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Sunday, October 7, 2007

Irreconcilable differences

What do Hillary Swank and Kevin Federline, Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock, Paul McCartney and Heather Mills have in common? If you said they are all divorced, that is half right. They decided to split up based upon “irreconcilable differences.” That reason for divorce was not allowed in New Jersey until recently.

On January 20, 2007, Governor Corzine signed into law a new cause of action for divorce known as “irreconcilable differences”. Previously, most divorce complaints were based on fault, such as adultery or extreme cruelty where a person had to articulate specific grounds of cruel behavior.

There was only one no-fault cause, separation where the spouse must have been living separate and apart for at least 18 months. Now, an additional new no-fault cause of action, “irreconcilable differences” has been added.The new law means that a Complaint for Divorce based on irreconcilable differences must state:

a.) You and your spouse must have experienced irreconcilable differences for six months.
b.) You or your spouse must have lived in New Jersey for 12 consecutive months before the filing of the divorce complaint.
c.) The irreconcilable differences make it appear that the marriage should be dissolved.
d.) There is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation.

This new law has no separation requirement, meaning that two people can file for divorce under this cause of action if they still live together. This ground for divorce may be appropriate to allege in certain situations such as when two people have simply grown apart and wish to end their marriage, but still wish to reside together until the divorce is finalized. As a result, a sense of civility and practicality is introduced to diovrce law in New Jersey by eliminating the need for spouses to state specific acts of wrongdoing in the divorce papers which usually lead to more caustic situations.

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